19And Tamar put ashes on her head and tore her robe. And putting her hand on her head, she went away crying bitterly.
20Her brother Absalom said to her, “Has your brother Amnon been with you? Be quiet for now, my sister. He is your brother. Do not take this thing to heart.” So Tamar lived as a desolate woman in the house of her brother Absalom.
— 2 Samuel 13:19-20