1When you sit down to dine with a ruler,
consider carefully what is set before you,
2and put a knife to your throat
if you possess a great appetite.
3Do not crave his delicacies,
for that food is deceptive.
4Do not wear yourself out to get rich;
be wise enough to restrain yourself.
5When you glance at wealth, it disappears,
for it makes wings for itselfand flies like an eagle to the sky.
6Do not eat the bread of a stingy man,
and do not crave his delicacies;
7for he is keeping track,
inwardly counting the cost.“Eat and drink,” he says to you,
but his heart is not with you.
8You will vomit up what little you have eaten
and waste your pleasant words.
9Do not speak to a fool,
for he will despise the wisdom of your words.
10Do not move an ancient boundary stone
or encroach on the fields of the fatherless,
11for their Redeemer is strong;
He will take up their case against you.
12Apply your heart to instruction
and your ears to words of knowledge.
13Do not withhold discipline from a child;
although you strike him with a rod, he will not die.
14Strike him with a rod,
and you will deliver his soul from Sheol.
15My son, if your heart is wise,
my own heart will indeed rejoice.
16My inmost being will rejoice
when your lips speak what is right.
17Do not let your heart envy sinners,
but always continue in the fear of the LORD.
18For surely there is a future,
and your hope will not be cut off.
19Listen, my son, and be wise,
and guide your heart on the right course.
20Do not join those who drink too much wine
or gorge themselves on meat.
21For the drunkard and the glutton will come to poverty,
and drowsiness will clothe them in rags.
22Listen to your father who gave you life,
and do not despise your mother when she is old.
23Invest in truth and never sell it —
in wisdom and instruction and understanding.
24The father of a righteous man will greatly rejoice,
and he who fathers a wise son will delight in him.
25May your father and mother be glad,
and may she who gave you birth rejoice!
26My son, give me your heart,
and let your eyes delight in my ways.
27For a prostitute is a deep pit,
and an adulteress is a narrow well.
28Like a robber she lies in wait
and multiplies the faithless among men.
29Who has woe? Who has sorrow?
Who has contentions? Who has complaints?Who has needless wounds? Who has bloodshot eyes?
30Those who linger over wine,
who go to taste mixed drinks.
31Do not gaze at wine while it is red,
when it sparkles in the cupand goes down smoothly.
32In the end it bites like a snake
and stings like a viper.
33Your eyes will see strange things,
and your mind will utter perversities.
34You will be like one sleeping on the high seas
or lying on the top of a mast:
35“They struck me, but I feel no pain!
They beat me, but I did not know it!When can I wake up
to search for another drink?”
— Proverbs 23

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